How to stop premature
ejaculation,
become a long-lasting lover,
and have the best sex ever.
At the moment, you may feel like
a failure in bed. But you can take control of your ejaculation and last as long
as you want in bed within weeks.... read on to find out how....
I know
how it feels to suffer from premature ejaculation because I used to reach orgasm
within three or four minutes every single time I made love. And,
like you, I wasn't happy with this level of sexual performance. In fact, I was very unhappy about it. (And so
was my girlfriend.)
But
the great news is that I discovered how to stop premature ejaculation and I now
have complete control over my orgasm & ejaculation. And so can you!
I wanted to give my partner all the pleasure she desired - which, for her,
means reaching a powerful orgasm through vaginal intercourse - while I also
enjoyed the greatest possible pleasure as I made love to her.
So I researched every website
I could find on the subject of stopping premature ejaculation, I read every bit of information, and I tried every
technique. Well, at least that's how it seemed!
Believe me, I've been there, seen it, done it! That's why, when I'd
finally discovered ways to stop premature ejaculation and last longer during
sex, I decided to write this
website - yes, the one you're reading now. If you'd like to go straight to the techniques that will
stop your premature ejaculation
click on the link NOW.
In this website, I
explain how you can use simple techniques to make love for as long as you want, how you can
actually choose when to ejaculate, and how you and your partner can enjoy
simultaneous orgasms during long lasting lovemaking.
Stop Premature Ejaculation Now And Be A
Great Lover In Weeks!
Although you can begin to
practice ejaculation control on your own, you'll obviously need the help of
your partner to learn how to enjoy prolonged vaginal intercourse.
Like I said, I've described how
my girlfriend and I did it on this website. And it's actually pretty easy! So
take courage, and read on, confident that you - like me - can put an end to
your premature ejaculation once and for all!
Premature
ejaculation is extremely common. But men rarely talk about their sexual problems,
so you're not likely to know that nearly all men ejaculate more quickly than they
want.
A survey done in America in the
1950's proved that 8 out of 10 men ejaculated within two minutes of entering their
partner's vagina, and nothing has changed since then. Nowadays, premature ejaculation
is defined as coming
within three minutes of vaginal thrusting more than half the times you have
sex. It looks as though being able to last a long time during lovemaking is a
rare thing. But here's
the surprise: premature ejaculation, though "normal", is easy to
control with or without the help of a professional sex therapist.
Remember also that premature
ejaculation is only a problem if it's causing distress or tension for you or
your partner. Many couples are quite happy to have the man bring his partner to
orgasm with his tongue or his fingers before he inserts his penis into her
vagina and enjoys his own quick orgasm.
But although this can be
satisfying, both partners will gain much more enjoyment from sex if the man is
able to stay in his partner's vagina without ejaculating for at least ten or
fifteen minutes. This is because women enjoy being penetrated by their lover
(just as a man enjoys the feeling of penetrating her vagina), and the feeling of
fullness can be deeply satisfying to her.
What's more, sexual arousal and
energy flows that begin to build up after a few minutes of insertion can provide
exquisite sensations for both the man and the woman.
Eventually these energy flows may
lead to a vaginal or G spot orgasm, a powerful experience which a woman will
miss if her man ejaculates after two or three minutes of vaginal intercourse.
And for you, the man, there is
nothing so exquisite as feeling her vagina throb and tighten around your penis
as she comes: the sensations are so powerful that they will often make a man
orgasm and ejaculate at the same time, so that the partners have a simultaneous
orgasm. Believe me, simultaneous orgasms make for great sex, not just good sex.
So why do most men
ejaculate so quickly? Sex therapists believe that a guy who ejaculates "too
soon" can't recognize the fact that he's on the verge of ejaculating, and
therefore doesn't slow down his thrusting to let his arousal drop. This would
let him go on for longer.
The problem is he doesn't
know he's going to come until it's too late, and then suddenly he's saying "Oh
no, not again!" To make this point clearer, think of how you masturbate.
You can control exactly when you
ejaculate by slowing down what you're doing or stopping altogether. Similarly,
the key to controlling premature ejaculation is learning to recognize when
you're about to ejaculate by attuning yourself to your body's signals at each stage of
your
sexual cycle. In short, if you are a quick ejaculator, you must
learn to recognize when you are about to
ejaculate, then learn how to lower your sexual arousal, before you can stop
your ejaculation happening too soon.
The good news is that this isn't
as difficult as it sounds. Consider your sexual response cycle.
You start by getting aroused. Then, at some point, depending on the intensity of stimulation
and your level of arousal, there's a shift to a level of arousal where ejaculation
becomes inevitable (you probably know this feeling!).
The difference between men who
ejaculate too quickly and men who don't
is the length of time they can stay below this point of "ejaculatory inevitability". You
can learn to stay below this point in the same way that you can when you
masturbate: you sense how aroused you are, and slow down or decrease the
stimulation so as to stop premature ejaculation.
When you're masturbating,
this means you slow down your hand movements; when you're making love it means
you decrease the speed, depth or rate of thrusting in your partner's vagina.
This gives you more control over how quickly you come, and allows you to end
the cycle of over arousal - premature ejaculation - performance anxiety
- even faster ejaculation next time.
There are loads of methods which claim to keep
you below the point of ejaculatory inevitability, ranging from anesthetic creams
to wearing two condoms to mysterious magical Eastern mythologies sold to you
on the internet for only a few dollars more! The reality is that there is just
one way of learning to control your ejaculation, and that's the way that a professional
sex therapist would teach you, and it's
the way described on this website.
You Will Discover How To Stop Premature Ejaculation When
You Use These Techniques
First of all, however, you have
some other things to think about, because premature ejaculation isn't just a
physical issue. It involves your emotions as well.
If you are worried about
premature ejaculation, you are very likely to be causing some level of emotional
arousal in your body which will make your nervous system even more sensitive
to stimulation and therefore more likely to have a premature ejaculation.
There are several ways you can deal with this, but the two most effective are
relaxation and reassurance from your partner.
Take the time to work through issues
of anxiety, anger or guilt with
your partner, whether these are sexual or not
Fear or anxiety makes men ejaculate quickly
because their whole system is aroused, on red alert, poised to respond in a
split second to danger or stimulation - including sexual stimulation. What's
more, if a guy is in some way anxious about his partner, or sex, or women in general,
then ejaculating quickly is a natural reaction to get away from the source of
the anxiety!
Anger is a real barrier to
intimacy. If you're feeling uncomfortable with someone, you have two ways of
dealing with sex: you can cut yourself off from your feelings so there's no
special connection with the other person, in which case it isn't lovemaking,
but sex, that you're doing; or you can try and avoid sex altogether.
Ejaculating quickly is one way of doing this. I know when I've been feeling
angry towards a partner I've tended to ejaculate quickly.
Retrain your body to last longer in bed
Most men have premature ejaculation because they are
over-sensitive to sexual arousal. This means they don't know when they're
going to ejaculate. If you are one of these men, this
premature ejaculation treatment (which uses a series of exercises to give you control
over rapid ejaculation) is exactly what you need. It's the quickest, easiest, and most
enjoyable way of learning how to last longer and stop your premature ejaculation.
These premature ejaculation exercises don't need much time, and you can
enjoy using them while you have sex or masturbate. There's nothing complicated, nothing difficult,
nothing that requires hours of practice. And they can also introduce a
new element of intimacy into your sex life. Your partner wants to be
close and intimate with you, so helping you stop your premature
ejaculation will make her
feel great! She also wants long-lasting lovemaking, and this way she can
get it.
All in all, she'll love you for this. First, because you
obviously care enough to stop your rapid ejaculation. Second, because she gets to help
you in these sexy, exciting, intimate procedures, and she loves all the things
you'll experience in the course of the premature ejaculation exercises: closeness, bodily contact, massage, playfulness and, above
all, fun! There's nothing to be apprehensive about - in fact, you'll
love the exercises too.
Let's check that out. Do you like sensual massage,
first over the whole body, and then on and around the penis, balls, vagina and vulva? Do you enjoy masturbation?
Do you like it when your partner masturbates you or gives you oral
pleasure? And do you like
intimate contact between your partner's vulva and your penis before you
enter her fully for sexual intercourse? Yes? In that case, you are going to love these premature ejaculation control
exercises.
How do they work? Simple. You learn to last longer
before you ejaculate, by gradually learning how to take more and more
sexual stimulation without any desire to ejaculate. In a few weeks you'll be able to last as long as you want in bed. Then, you will have that immense confidence that comes from
knowing you can truly satisfy your woman!
Don't wait a minute longer to stop
premature ejaculation -
- DO THIS NOW. FOR YOU - AND FOR HER. It
works. I know - I'm a trained sexual therapist and I wrote the program
after I used it to cure my own premature ejaculation!
You can draw some obvious conclusions about how prevalent quick
ejaculation is among
men by the number of adverts and websites devoted to the subject on the
internet. Unfortunately that is also a testimony to the amount of money
to be made from peddling cures - or supposed cures - for the problem to
men who are desperate to extend the length of time for which they can
make love.
Coming too quickly is a dispiriting thing for a man - it certainly makes
him feel like a failure in bed, if not actually a failure as a man (two
things that are very closely linked in most men's minds). And for his
partner, the effects can be emotionally upsetting: she may think he
doesn't care about her, that he is selfish, even that he is angry with
her. In the worst case she may think that he doesn't even love her.
The obvious thing to men who ejaculate long before they would like to is
that none of these things is usually true. Premature ejaculation feels
so much out of one's control; so much so that you may be despairing
about your chance of ever stopping it happening - that can certainly be
how it feels when you start making love, feel your orgasm approaching
uncontrollably, and then experience the inevitable ejaculation that
follows hard on its heels.
Just in case there are any men out there who don't know the facts
about premature ejaculation: it is usually due to your body getting too
aroused too quickly, without you realizing it, as you make love. Then
the transition between high arousal and ejaculation happens all too
suddenly. It's not about being angry with your partner, or about not
loving your partner, or that you are a selfish lover. In fact, most men
who come too soon are actually very loving and care a great deal about
their partner's happiness.
There is plenty of scientific research on the internet about how to
stop premature ejaculation which you can
read if you'd like to do so. For example, at the moment there is a lot
of work on
developing drug treatments for
rapid ejaculation (as the condition is sometimes known). And this is
an interesting article on
how you define the condition - for example, if neither a man nor his
partner are bothered about the fact that he comes too quickly, then does
he have premature ejaculation? It's an interesting point, and if a
couple really don't care about how long vaginal intercourse lasts, then
you might expect the problem to be self-correcting, at least if one of
the contributory factors is the anxiety that ejaculating too quickly
actually causes.
In case that last point is a bit obscure, let me explain. When you
have sex, you get aroused - that is to say, your nervous system gets
more active, more agitated: the same thing happens when you get anxious.
Therefore, the more anxious you feel, the more your body is aroused, and
the faster you are likely to ejaculate. Equally, the less anxious you
are, the more control you are likely to have over your ejaculation. You
see how men can get into a negative vicious cycle: more anxiety means
faster ejaculation means more anxiety means faster ejaculation.....
So what about cures? Being relaxed and confident is a great start.
And the best way for that to happen is for a man to enjoy intercourse
with a long standing partner, who is loving and reassuring, and
genuinely wants to work towards longer lasting sex with her partner. But
even without that, there are things you can do to work towards greater
control. The whole basis of ejaculatory control is about becoming more
aware of your body and the signals that it gives you as you move towards
ejaculation. To recognize these signals allows you to slow the pace of
sex and let your arousal drop...and, yes, of course that takes
discipline, in that you have to stop thrusting if you are making love,
at least for a little while, but how much better that is than simply
thrusting without much awareness of how aroused you are and then coming
too soon.....perhaps just as your partner is beginning to get sexually
excited.
So here is some guidance to selecting the right cure:
First of all, I want to tell you that I know how premature
ejaculation feels - I
suffered (if that is the right word) premature ejaculation for a long
time, and I eventually cured it using the methods I learned when I
trained as a professional sex therapist. To share this knowledge with
other men, I then wrote a whole treatment course which is designed to
help all men who just don't last long enough. You can discover how to stop premature ejaculation here.
Second, I don't recommend drug treatments. They don't really get to
the heart of the problem, even though they may give you some short term
relief. In any case case, these are actually anti-depressants, and even
if they happen to delay ejaculation, you're still interfering with your
normal brain function. That isn't such a good idea, I think. But if you
want more information, get it
here.
Third, you may find self-hypnosis helpful. It can certainly relax
you. If you'd like to investigate it, try Victoria Gallagher's self
hypnosis CD's. Get all the information you need
at Victoria's website.
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